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TO on Dr Phil: faces 3 of the 4 women who he owes child supprt

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  • dj43
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Originally posted by glorydayz:
I personally don't like it how T.O cries about not having a father, and talks about how his grandmother had to raise him.
Then he turns around and hasy 4 kids with 4 different women and he doesn't even know one of the children!

He knows exactly what the kids are going through, he is a trip.

He will committ suicide soon, as this all seems like an act of hopelesness on his part and that is sad too.
He only identifies as a football player and that is gone, poor kids.

These kids don't only need $, they need a father.

As despicable as his behavior has been both on and off the field, I feel sorry for him. He is symptomatic of a problem that is nearly epidemic in America; children growing up in an environment where there is not a full-time father figure in the home. Having lacked that influence in his life, as is all-to-often the case, he has replicated what he grew up with. So while that does not excuse his behavior, it underscores a change in direction that needs to occur in America. Sadly, I don't see it happening.

Every time you walk through a mall, every store display is blatantly selling sex. Even stores that cater to the middle-school age level have filled their windows with soft porn. Over the last two weeks, Hollister has been bagging customer purchases in a bag with an image of a shirtless young man/teen with his pants down so low he obviously had to shave to prevent showing public hairs. Abercrombie and Victoria's Secret make the same appeal. The message is clear: "Looking sexy is everything." If you aren't sexy, you have nothing to offer.

Without strong parental influence and counseling, kids grow up believing that ultra sexy is the only way to look and gain peer acceptance. Nothing, or very little is left to the imagination, and when they act out what they see advertised, we see Terrell Owens situations all over the country. Yet, when people complain they are accused of "censorship." Get used to Terrell Owens and the many other celebrities with multiple children that they have dumped on society, it is going to be with us for a long time unless people begin to be more responsible parents.
T.O. is an idiot when it comes to his money and being a good father.....BUT REALLY!!!!.......Why does any woman deserve to get a F-IN $45,000 a F-IN MONTH?!!!!!!!!! in child support?.......STUPID @$$ COURT SYSTEM!!!!!! all of T.O.'s baby mamaz and the courts have been RAPPING T.O. for years!!!!....No wonder the brotha broke!!!!
Cowherd was talking about this subject the other day with Seau. 85% of players that have made 15 mil and over will still end up broke in less than 10 years after retiring.

People are laughing at TO but this is an issue that plagues the league. These guys are just idiots with their money. I'm sure that child support doesn't help. 45,000 dollars a month. Do judges not understand just how short of a time he actually makes big jack. These guys aren't regular millioniares.
[ Edited by tjd808185 on May 8, 2012 at 11:18 AM ]
  • dj43
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Originally posted by 49ER-EXTREMIST:
T.O. is an idiot when it comes to his money and being a good father.....BUT REALLY!!!!.......Why does any woman deserve to get a F-IN $45,000 a F-IN MONTH?!!!!!!!!! in child support?.......STUPID @$$ COURT SYSTEM!!!!!! all of T.O.'s baby mamaz and the courts have been RAPPING T.O. for years!!!!....No wonder the brotha broke!!!!

Don't blame the courts for his predicament. If he was paying for only one child it might be different but; FOUR?
Awkward show
Originally posted by dj43:
Originally posted by glorydayz:
I personally don't like it how T.O cries about not having a father, and talks about how his grandmother had to raise him.
Then he turns around and hasy 4 kids with 4 different women and he doesn't even know one of the children!

He knows exactly what the kids are going through, he is a trip.

He will committ suicide soon, as this all seems like an act of hopelesness on his part and that is sad too.
He only identifies as a football player and that is gone, poor kids.

These kids don't only need $, they need a father.

As despicable as his behavior has been both on and off the field, I feel sorry for him. He is symptomatic of a problem that is nearly epidemic in America; children growing up in an environment where there is not a full-time father figure in the home. Having lacked that influence in his life, as is all-to-often the case, he has replicated what he grew up with. So while that does not excuse his behavior, it underscores a change in direction that needs to occur in America. Sadly, I don't see it happening.

Every time you walk through a mall, every store display is blatantly selling sex. Even stores that cater to the middle-school age level have filled their windows with soft porn. Over the last two weeks, Hollister has been bagging customer purchases in a bag with an image of a shirtless young man/teen with his pants down so low he obviously had to shave to prevent showing public hairs. Abercrombie and Victoria's Secret make the same appeal. The message is clear: "Looking sexy is everything." If you aren't sexy, you have nothing to offer.

Without strong parental influence and counseling, kids grow up believing that ultra sexy is the only way to look and gain peer acceptance. Nothing, or very little is left to the imagination, and when they act out what they see advertised, we see Terrell Owens situations all over the country. Yet, when people complain they are accused of "censorship." Get used to Terrell Owens and the many other celebrities with multiple children that they have dumped on society, it is going to be with us for a long time unless people begin to be more responsible parents.
Drop that no father stuff. Plenty of us grew up without fathers. That's the main reason i make sure I'm full time participant in my child's' life b/c i didn't want her to deal with what I had to. At least he had a grandma that took care of him. I got friends that had nobody but the foster system.
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Originally posted by lamontb:
Originally posted by dj43:
Originally posted by glorydayz:
I personally don't like it how T.O cries about not having a father, and talks about how his grandmother had to raise him.
Then he turns around and hasy 4 kids with 4 different women and he doesn't even know one of the children!

He knows exactly what the kids are going through, he is a trip.

He will committ suicide soon, as this all seems like an act of hopelesness on his part and that is sad too.
He only identifies as a football player and that is gone, poor kids.

These kids don't only need $, they need a father.

As despicable as his behavior has been both on and off the field, I feel sorry for him. He is symptomatic of a problem that is nearly epidemic in America; children growing up in an environment where there is not a full-time father figure in the home. Having lacked that influence in his life, as is all-to-often the case, he has replicated what he grew up with. So while that does not excuse his behavior, it underscores a change in direction that needs to occur in America. Sadly, I don't see it happening.

Every time you walk through a mall, every store display is blatantly selling sex. Even stores that cater to the middle-school age level have filled their windows with soft porn. Over the last two weeks, Hollister has been bagging customer purchases in a bag with an image of a shirtless young man/teen with his pants down so low he obviously had to shave to prevent showing public hairs. Abercrombie and Victoria's Secret make the same appeal. The message is clear: "Looking sexy is everything." If you aren't sexy, you have nothing to offer.

Without strong parental influence and counseling, kids grow up believing that ultra sexy is the only way to look and gain peer acceptance. Nothing, or very little is left to the imagination, and when they act out what they see advertised, we see Terrell Owens situations all over the country. Yet, when people complain they are accused of "censorship." Get used to Terrell Owens and the many other celebrities with multiple children that they have dumped on society, it is going to be with us for a long time unless people begin to be more responsible parents.
Drop that no father stuff. Plenty of us grew up without fathers. That's the main reason i make sure I'm full time participant in my child's' life b/c i didn't want her to deal with what I had to. At least he had a grandma that took care of him. I got friends that had nobody but the foster system.

Well, growing up that way has a different affect on all of us. I grew up without a father as well and can see both of your points of view but I think that Owens' problems go a little deeper than just simple explanations. Him not having a father may have been a factor, not THE factor because the human brain is much more complicated than that.
Anybody tally how many people still think we should sign him. Lol
If TO was just a little bit humble, he would still be playing and he could try and break records.

WHO WANTS TO DEAL WITH THIS IDIOT? He started acting like an "idiot" in SF when he went and stood on the Dallas Star......ever since then it's been downhill. Why have that atttitude on your team.

Is it any surprise that he has four kids by four different women?

And he's already tried "suicide" a couple of times, but it was covered up or they said it was a mistake.

He burned all of his bridges in sports. F TO!!!!!!! He SUCKS.........I wish we had pulled off the trade to Baltimore, so Ray Lewis could have taught him something about "team" play and beat the crap outta him everyday in practice.

He an embarassment to the League now.
Originally posted by RonMexico:
Really TO?


that's the best you could do?

This is exactly the question that Dr. Phil needs to be asking. WTF TO
  • cciowa
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Originally posted by Rubberneck36:
Anybody tally how many people still think we should sign him. Lol

sad to say there are probably a few who still would want him on our team over moss. nice to see the circus around him never stops. he has to generate, create or prolong drama cuz if he did not, he would have to lead a normal life and that is not acceptable to him
he is on TV now KRON4
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