Originally posted by ninertico:
It is all about respect, period, IMO.
It is a choice to engage. Once you do, you are responsible for your actions, period.
Well, in a normal world this is certainly true and it would end there - period. However, when it comes to the 'zone, apparently others can be held responsible for your actions also -- as crazy as that sounds.
What I mean is, (as "Oscar" recently explained to me following a warning for a sarcastic post of mine that MIGHT have resulted in an offensive response from another poster), if you post something that results in another member responding inappropriately YOU can be warned!! That's right, we are all responsible for how other members CHOOSE to respond to our posts.
Problem is, it's very arbitrary, inconsistent, selective and random b/c it's left up to the "interpretation" and "mood" of the individual mod. Therefore, there is no consensus of opinion about a warning, just a single individual making an instant judgement which I think can be a big problem that needs to be worked out of the warning equation.
In reality, these rules should be able to be applied equally, evenly and consistently every time via a set standard of criteria regardless of which mod it is. This and similiar issues have been discussed my many fans on this site for years.
Now, common sense tells me and most sensible people that whether you "incite" (aka provoke, urge) or not (even though it's against the rules), how another member chooses to or NOT to respond to it is solely their responsibility.
As you said, they should be responsible for their own actions. Along those same lines, I feel that mature, normal adults should be in control of what they post and restrain themselves from responding inappropriately no matter what somebody else posts whether it's meant to incite or not. It's a matter of accountability and self-control.
However, with the "incite" rule, in some cases the sole responsibility is removed from the member who CHOOSES to respond inappropriately and partially placed on the poster who's post he/she is responding to which is ridiculous, IMO. This is an example of placing blame somewhere other than where is should remain -- with the member who actually responded inappropriately.
[ Edited by Sabrason on Jul 7, 2009 at 11:29 PM ]