Originally posted by SonocoNinerFan:Originally posted by aman49:Originally posted by BSUNiner:Originally posted by HessianDud:Originally posted by BSUNiner:Originally posted by HessianDud:Originally posted by BSUNiner:
I happened to be listening to Loveline last night while dropping off a friend and they were discussing a similar situation. Apparently a 16 year old girl was dating a 22 year old dude. Drew and the guests were disgusted by it (they actually mentioned vomiting as a response).
Drew said that the difference between the mental development of someone in their mid-teens and someone in their 20s is typically great enough that there's usually some sort of sexual dysfunction with a "young adult" who is attracted to an "adolescent". He summed it up by saying the dude was a "creep".
It may not be the exact scenario as Sanchez's but I thought it was at least a somewhat comparable situation.
drew is f**king douchebag.
but anyway, sure, its a little creepy and probably bad judgment, but saying it makes you want to vomit is over-reacting. if Sanchez was wanting to date this girl it would be creepier, IMO, but as long as everything is consensual then who gives a s**t? he met her at a club, not at a high school party. it wasn't like he was looking for super young chicks. she was at the club, he thought she was hot, she said she was seventeen, he said we'll talk when you're eighteen, she said age of consent is 17, he said cool, lets hook up, they hooked up. i don't really see how that's depraved. it was legal and consensual and by all reports a one-time thing.
I kinda like Drew. He seems like a decent guy to me at least.
I'm not defending the chick by any means. She wasn't so young that she didn't fully understand what she was doing. She's just some skanky chick with a skanky mom apparently. She knew EXACTLY what she was doing. She just wanted to get it on with a famous guy.
But to say that Sanchez isn't in the wrong at all is crazy (I'm not pointing fingers but some of the responses seem that way. I could be wrong).
She's a skank and Sanchez is a kind of a creep. That sums it up for me at least.
well, he's not legally wrong and i don't think he's morally wrong. maybe he's a creep and maybe she's a skank but at the end of they day its their lives and their decisions and its not really anybody elses business.
I thought someone's morals or lack thereof is what made them a creep? If he's a creep then he did something morally wrong to deserve that moniker in my opinion.
Sanchez is a creep. Dr. Drew is spot on. The girl is 17... definitely not mature enough to understand the depravity of a 17-24 year old hookup. But Sanchez sure did.
This thread is really just exposing the the people on the webzone who have, or would, date a teenager (if it is/was legal in their jurisdiction).
Get over yourself . . .
He can't hear you, his horse is way too high.