Originally posted by HessianDud:
Originally posted by WINiner:
No the problem in the country is proven by the majority of the responses in this forum. That a girl can be ashamed of what she's done and cry rape to make it all better. That a mans character can be slandered when a police investigation says he committed no crime.
Your assumptions and your biases, which elevate the word of a celebrity male over that of a woman and show a distrust in general of women who claim sexual assault.
Originally posted by WINiner:
She claims she said no....nobody else heard that. She HAS to say that for there to be rape. So if she's going to claim it was rape, what else would you expect her to say?
I'm not sure what this is supposed to mean. You think she went into the bar planning to claim rape? That it was premeditated? What is her motive?
Originally posted by WINiner:
Look do women get raped? Yes they do, but the scenario presented stinks it's so damn fishy. For example. How was it that only Ben and this girl were in a bathroom? Every club I have ever been to has busy restrooms. No body guard is holding back a throng of men or women with floating teeth, and if they were then there would have been reports of such. Also if reports are correct these bodyguards were off duty cops. Why would an off duty cop facilitate rape?
The scenario does stink, you are right about that.
My biases elevate the word of a celebrity male? No not my biases, although I do have some, but rather the medical findings and the extensive police investigation that found no wrong doing. They are what raises the word of a celebrity male imo
Yep I will admit to it. I do have a distrust for women who cry rape in fishy situations. I have been accused and was looking at serious trouble cause it was my word against hers, and god forbid anyone NOT automatically side with the accuser, the poor girl (sarcasm heavy on that comment). Especially in a country where you are innocent until proven guilty (yeah effin right).
I know how Ben feels having everyone look at you like a piece of trash when you did absolutely nothing wrong (granted he shouldn't put himself in those situations). To have people you have known for years turn their back on you at the drop of an accusation all because I didn't want a long term relationship. The girl TOLD me she was going to cry rape, and when I told the authorities that they looked at me like I was some kind of monster. Also similar to this case, the investigation found no sign of forced entry, no evidence of wrong doing, yet people and authorities were still believing her over me, cause god forbid anyone actually stop and think instead of the auto reaction that they feel is appropriate.
In my case the girls best friend grew a conscious and told the police that her friend told her both before and after the party that she intended on having sex with me and the rape charge was a result of a hurt ego. After that the wheels feel off ol girls rape story and she later admitted that she was willing. Do you think I got one apology for the nasty things people in a position of authority called me? Do you think those people I knew who turned their backs on me just like that, all the sudden realized their mistake and were friendly again? To this day there are STILL people I see in the town I grew up in who won't talk to me, nearly 20 years later.
Did she get in any trouble at all for bringing the charge she knew damn well was false? For forcing the investigation of a crime she knew damn well didn't happen? For wasting tax payers money because she couldn't control her ego? Did she have to even apologize for trying to have me incarcerated and my life ruined for her ego? Nope, nothing, nada. I STILL deal with garbage from that little incident and here that b***h sending me friends invites on Facebook nearly 20 years later.
I got lots of tail when I was younger, and never ever hurt a girl/woman or made them do anything, and stopped on several occasions when asked to (could never get those virgins to complete the act). My mamma raisedd me right and I treat women right, always have, always will.
No I don't think it was premeditated, but if she is going to claim rape, whether rape happened or not, then she has to say she said no, or there is no rape, so of course she says she said no.
[ Edited by WINiner on Apr 18, 2010 at 8:00 AM ]