Originally posted by OhioNiner:
Thing is too he'll be a good looking guy for a while still. But for us more normal looking guys, I've kind of developed a theory that if a guy is good looking but still single at a certain point he ain't all that ladies and there must be some serious defects beneath that pretty face.
Of course, also as a guy I guess I can't completely blame Jimmy for enjoying what God and genetics gave him and kind of living the single life, playing the field, and making a nice chunk of change. I still don't think that would be me because I'm a little bit more of a romantic than a play the field type and if you find that special someone...
But the theory actually goes back to even a guy I worked with and was friends with. Good looking guy who when he started was as single as can be. Naturally flirty and drew his share of attention. But started work as single as can be. Started dating a girl 12 years younger than him that he worked with. I thought it was a bit of an odd match and not even for the age difference. They lasted almost 3 years but when it ended, yup, it was mostly his fault. And we were friends and I'd look at him as one if I saw him today. So he's a good guy in a lot of ways but definitely has his issues as well.
As far again as Jimmy, seeing how his taste apparently was for a not the most attractive, bit older porn actress, yeah he may not be the sharpest guy around. But then some already probably thought that with the way he played on the field at times.
Me and another fellow Zoner are 40something singles still.........but women ask us "why??" with the tone of "how are you not married yet??", instead of "oh ok, we get it".
When you don't carry a f**kboy aura, you get this benefit of the doubt. Jimmy reminds me of Derek Jeter, in that he can do a lot of smashing and still not be seen as a f**kboy, because.....they weren't/aren't. Jimmy can get 50x of Travis Kelce (evidenced by how he's in another league even among NFL players in that Warriors cheerleader video), and yet because he doesn't come off like a cocky prick (hence where all this stress is coming from in his comments, LMAO), isn't a f**k boy. Travie has to play his cards right to smash Swiftie without coming off like a douche, whereas Jimmy could do whatever he wants without any consequences lol.
The issues IMO lie in the fact that for some of us (I'll only speak for myself here), we weren't f**kboy enough for the young girls when we were younger, and now that we're older a lot of them are of no use to us except recreational use. It becomes harder to settle down at older age even if more attractive, because it's just more difficult to have access to quality young girls through your social circle which gets exponentially more married as you age.
[ Edited by JTsBiggestFan on Sep 28, 2023 at 2:03 PM ]
. At least he's consistent.