Originally posted by nsabot3000:You all do realize that domestic violence encompasses far more than just partner violence, no?
And you also realize that CDC studies have shown that it's almost exactly 50/50 who the instigator is when it is partner violence?
Having dealt with DV situations twice in my life, where in both instances the woman was the primary, repeated aggressor... no, the way society treats this issue is total garbage.
I hope all you out there who are laughing and saying 'this thread is a joke' find yourself in a situation where you can't get a crazy drunk woman to leave you alone, you call the police, YOU have f**king bite marks on you and are literally bleeding from the back of your head (because you won't hit a woman, but she'll attack the s**t out of you) - only to have the police tell you 'you better watch yourself' and hand her a domestic violence hotline card. Because that is exactly what happened to me.
Hell, the cops even rolled up when she was trying to take off, CAUGHT her drunk driving.... still: me - bad guy. her - victim. Right?
Sorry, but we are 100% sexist on this issue as a society. f**k your made up narratives.
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This. I've also been severely beaten by 2 different women and couldn't do anything about it. One of them also smashed my TV, broke out my windows in the front of my house, flushed $700 down the toilet, stalked me for a few months and then slandered me every chance she had, as in, told everyone I beat and raped her repeatedly when we were together. It's no joke. And the punches to the face actually hurt. I'm 6-2 210 lbs and it took everything i had (with the last one) to keep her from killing me without leaving marks on her. I Couldnt get her out of my rental house because both our names were on the lease. It was six months if living hell. I would have gone to a men's shelter if one existed. The night she broke the windows out the cops actually made me leave. Had to stay at a friends house for a few days. All very funny. She somehow got my parents phone number and called them 40 times a day for a week straight until they changed their number.